You don’t need closure. You need power. 💅

Hey babe,

Let’s get one thing straight:

No one gets to fuck with your emotions unless you hand them the remote.
And most of us? We’ve been handing it over like it’s a free trial.

You cry when they ghost.
You spiral when they pull back.
You start questioning your worth just because someone didn’t text back in 0.2 seconds.

Been there. Felt that. But that’s not power.
That’s emotional outsourcing.

So today’s truth is loud and clear:

You don’t need to control how other people act.
You just need to own how you react.

That’s emotional sovereignty.
That’s what changes the game.

Because once you stop letting other people’s inconsistency dictate your inner peace?
You become unfuckwithable.

Here’s what being emotionally sovereign actually looks like:

• You stop begging people to “communicate better” and start communicating your standards

• You stop decoding mixed signals and start walking away from confusion

• You stop looking for closure and start choosing peace

• You stop people-pleasing and start self-respecting

• You stop making excuses for bad behavior and start enforcing consequences

You don’t regulate your emotions for people, you regulate them around people.

Let them flake. Let them be weird. Let them disappear.
You don’t spiral anymore. You observe, adjust, and protect your energy.

This week, give yourself permission to:
💘 Feel your feelings without needing a savior
💘 Say what you mean without shrinking
💘 Set the boundary without guilt
💘 Be the stable one in your own life

Try this:
Next time you’re triggered, ask:
“Is this a me problem or a ‘them showing me who they are’ moment?”
And act accordingly. 👑

A quote for the week:
"Taking responsibility for your emotions doesn’t mean blaming yourself. It means freeing yourself."

A song to carry you:
🎧“Wicked Games” – The Weeknd
For the girl who gave everything to someone who didn’t deserve her. For the one who’s done begging to be chosen. This one hits deep.
Let it bleed, then let it go.

Enjoy the goosebumps 

The truth is, your feelings are valid but they’re also yours.
Nobody else gets to hold the pen to your emotional story.

Let them think you’re cold. Let them call you dramatic.
You’re not hard to love. You just stopped self-abandoning.

And now?
You’re emotionally unavailable to bullshit.
You’re emotionally sovereign, and that’s your superpower.

Always with you,
Felipa XOXO 💌