You Already Know

Hey babe 🤍

Let me save you some time.

You’re not confused.
You’re not unsure.
You’re not in your “thinking phase.”

You already know.

You know how this makes you feel.
You know what keeps draining you.
You know what you’d tell your best friend if roles were reversed.

But knowing means you’d have to act, and action would cost you something.

So instead, you stall.

You analyze tone.
You replay moments.
You look for signs that cancel out the obvious one.

That’s not self-reflection.
That’s delay.

And we dress it up nicely because “I’m not ready yet” sounds better than
“I’m scared of what changes if I admit the truth.”

🖤

Why clarity feels uncomfortable

Because truth usually means:

• letting something end without a dramatic reason

• choosing yourself without being validated

• being alone before things get better

• disappointing someone you hoped wouldn’t notice

Confusion feels active.
Truth feels final.

So we stay tired 😮‍💨 instead of decisive.

The subtle ways this shows up

Be honest with yourself 👀

• You say “I don’t know”, but your body shuts down every time

• You feel relief imagining distance, then guilt for wanting it

• You wait for one more conversation that won’t change anything

• You already feel the loss, you’re just delaying it

If you keep thinking about the same thing
it’s not because it’s unclear.
It’s because you don’t want to stand in what you know.

This is self-respect, not ruthlessness

Avoidance isn’t failure.
It’s human 🤍

But staying there too long?
That’s how women convince themselves they’re “being patient”
while quietly betraying their own instincts.

Your intuition isn’t loud.
It’s repetitive 🔁

Permission (because somehow you still need it)

You’re allowed to:

• stop waiting for clarity you already have

• choose discomfort over mental exhaustion

• make a move without a perfect explanation

• trust yourself even if no one claps

✨

One question. Sit with it.

If nothing went wrong when you chose yourself…
what would you already be done with?

🎶Song Recommendation

“Change (In the House of Flies)” – Deftones

That song it’s a bit different from the other ones but you will enjoy it as much as the other ones.

That’s it.
No signs coming.
No plot twist.
Just honesty 🖤

With love,

Felipa XOXO💌