Needing someone? Cringe.

Be honest girl, are you scared of wanting love ‘cause it makes you look weak?

We’re raised to think needing someone is desperate.
So we go to the other extreme: “I don’t need anyone. I’m good alone.”
Cool. Me too.

But here’s the truth:
There’s a difference between needing someone, and wanting them.
And knowing the difference is what makes you dangerous.

You don’t need anyone to fix you, save you, or complete you. You’ve done the heavy lifting. You’ve held your own hand through the darkest nights. You built yourself.

But still, you want love. You want connection. You want to be chosen without begging for it.
And guess what? That doesn’t make you weak.
It makes you fucking powerful.

Because when you know you’re good on your own, and still choose to let someone in, that’s the strongest move you can make. That’s not desperation. That’s confidence. That’s saying:
“I love my life. But I’ve got space for something deeper.”

And let’s be real: wanting love while being whole is sexy as hell.
You’re not looking for someone to fill a void. You’re looking for someone who adds to the empire you’ve already built.

This week, give yourself permission to:

• Admit you want love, and still be that bitch who thrives without it

• Stop pretending you don’t care just to look strong

• Be soft because you’re strong, not in spite of it

Try this:

Next time you catch yourself saying “I don’t care,” ask:
“Do I actually not care? Or am I scared to admit I do?”
Let yourself want. Let yourself feel. But never let that shit define your worth.

A quote for you:

A song to carry you:

“Only Girl (In The World)” – Rihanna
Because you’re whole, glowing, and deserve to feel like the only one, not because you need it, but because you demand it.

Listen to this song now

So tell me babe, are you ready to stop pretending you don’t want love, and start choosing it without guilt?
Because the version of you that’s both soft and strong? She’s already here.

With heart, truth, and no apologies,

Felipa ❤️