He didn’t cheat by accident 💋

Hey babe,

Let’s talk about cheating.

Not the cute kind that gets swept under the rug with “sorry, I was drunk.”
Not the half-assed confessions that come after you already knew.
Not the gaslighting that makes you question your own gut.

The real kind. The soul-crushing, head-spinning, life-altering kind.

Cheating starts way before the first kiss.
It starts with distance. With secrets. With changed passwords and “I’m just tired.”
It starts when they stop choosing you and pretend nothing’s wrong.

Then come the lies.
The sudden silence.
The emotional cheating dressed up as “we’re just close friends.”

It spirals.
You start blaming yourself.
You think you’re crazy, needy, dramatic.
But babe, you’re not. You’re intuitive. You felt it. And you were right.

The truth?
Cheating isn’t a mistake. It’s a series of choices made in silence.
It’s cowardice. It’s entitlement. It’s disrespect hiding behind charm.

And when you finally find out?
They’ll act like you’re the villain.
They’ll gaslight you, spin the story, cry fake tears.
“I didn’t mean to.”
“It didn’t mean anything.”
“You pushed me away.”

No, girl. You didn’t push him. He walked.
Straight into someone else’s arms while you were still loving him.

But here’s where it changes, you don’t have to stay broken.

Because even if he made you feel small, replaceable, or not enough
you were always more than he could handle.

You don’t need closure. You need truth.
And the truth is:

• You didn’t make him cheat.

• You weren’t too much.

• You weren’t not enough.

• You were loyal to someone who didn’t deserve access to you.

Let him cheat in peace. Let him lie to himself.
You? You heal. You level up. You reclaim your worth.

This week, give yourself permission to:
💔 Stop blaming yourself for someone else's betrayal
💔 Stop romanticizing a man who couldn’t even respect you
💔 Block the burner account he's watching you from
💔 Believe that love isn’t supposed to hurt like that

Try this:
Instead of asking, “Why wasn’t I enough for him?”
Ask, “Why did I think he was enough for me?”

A quote for you:
“Cheating isn’t about you not being good enough. It’s about them not being good at love.”

A song to carry you:
🎧 “Happier Than Ever” – Billie Eilish
For the girl who cried, cracked, screamed into her pillow, and still came out more powerful than ever.

[Listen to it 💅]

You’re not just healing from a broken heart.
You’re healing from manipulation. From gaslighting. From emotional war.

But you’re healing.
And that’s powerful.
That’s brave.
That’s what makes you unbreakable.

They lost you.
But you?
You just found yourself.

Always with you,`
Felipa 💌