Be With Who You Want to Be.

The people around you determine who you become.

Want to be rich? Be with people who already know how to make money.
Want to be a pro athlete? Be with the athletes.
Want to be a fearless artist? Be with creators who make bold moves.

Not your friends. Not your family. Not the people who make you feel safe. The people you hang with should be your future-self in human form.

Because energy is contagious babe. Habits are social. The grind, the focus, the ambition… it spreads. And if you surround yourself with people who haven’t leveled up yet, who are stuck in comfort or drama? You’ll plateau.

💣 How Your Circle Shapes Your Glow

• Your vibe sets your tribe: If you want success, ambition, or artistry, your circle must match that energy.

• Your habits become theirs, theirs become yours: Winning isn’t just learned, it’s caught.

• Your future self is waiting: The right people will push you into the next version of you.

• Your circle reflects your standards: If you accept mediocrity around you, you’ll stay mediocre.

✨ How to Curate Your Future Circle

• Identify the version of you you’re growing into: Who is she? Where is she hanging out? What energy does she move in?

• Seek people who live that life: Mentors, peers, communities, people already living your goals.

• Step up your environment: Go where your future self would thrive: Events, workshops, rooms that scare you a little.

• Leave comfort behind: Not everyone from your past needs a seat at your future table.

• Mirror, don’t mimic: Observe their habits, energy, and mindset. Then own your version of it.

💌 Permission List

You’re allowed to:

• Hang with people who challenge your current self.

• Leave relationships that don’t match your next level.

• Pursue your vision even if they don’t understand it.

• Prioritize growth over comfort.

• Surround yourself with your future self, unapologetically.

📝 Reflection Prompt

Who are you spending time with today and will they exist in the circle of your future self?
What’s one relationship or environment you can upgrade to match who you’re becoming?

💬 Quote

🎶 Song Recommendation

“I Was Never There” – The Weeknd
Sometimes you have to step away from the noise and only be present where your energy is matched. Let this song remind you: your future-self circle isn’t about loyalty, it’s about alignment.

You’re not just choosing friends babe, you’re curating your evolution.
Surround yourself with people who reflect who you’re becoming, not just who you are today.
Your future self deserves a table full of energy that matches her power.

Felipa XOXO💌